GIFT GUIDE for the hottest, smartest woman in your life (you).
Part 1: Self Development & Self Care
Hello!
Happy holidays? Time is moving so fast, the weather is changing slowly, and I am rebirthing- I hope you are too.
Surprisingly, I’ve never put a (public) gift guide together before - something about holiday shopping tends to repel me. The consumer-driven pressures and the urgency to secure deals under retail’s spell often feel at odds with the thoughtful, slow approach I embody when gifting & shopping. The haste and distraction of it all can make the experience feel paradoxically joyless and devoid of sentiment.
That being said, I was very deliberate when curating the next few gift guides for you. Each selection draws from my favorite self-development/care practices and cherished keepsakes. They’re intended to inspire joy and fulfillment that lasts far beyond the moment of unwrapping, anchored in meaning and designed to be used daily or appreciated for a lifetime.
I’ve broken it up into a few categories, part 1 will feature:
self-development (coaching, courses, reading material)
self-care (body care, internal health, rituals)
And the next will highlight:
stylish & sentimental keepsakes (jewelry, journals, investment-wear)
home (decor & gourmet snacks)
vintage & secondhand finds
Indulge in these recs yourself or gift them to a friend- in either case the theme is self-luuuuuv.
Self-Development
Wealth & Confidence Hypnosis
I’m really reallly into hypnosis and have been exploring subconscious reprogramming for a while now- the results have been life changing. The way you see yourself, your self-concept, directly shapes the life you live, for better or worse. I’ve done a few custom sessions with @christythehypnotist (some virtual & in person) and the clarity, centeredness, and prosperity I feel inside is truly remarkable. Our work together has inspired new ideas for income streams and has led to many creative breakthroughs.
Level up on LinkedIn/ Tiktok
If you’re an artist, an entrepreneur, a corporate employee who wants to make more money, a person who wants to make more money, follow Courtney Johnson. If you want to realllly step into new career territory fast, join her cohorts. She teaches you how to leverage your online presence by becoming a thought leader in your industry (without the cringe) and has multiplied her clients’ income within just a few weeks of implementation. This is a gift that will keep on giving- trust!
Fashion Psychology
Interested in the intersection of fashion & psychology? Want to use that information to boost your career, confidence, and full spectrum personal style? Consider a course from Fashion Psychology - Explore the psychological principles behind our fashion choices, discover why we’re drawn to certain brands, unlock the deeper meaning behind our presentation, and more. Use code ‘thecuratedtastemaker10’ for 10% off any course (I’ll receive a small commission with no additional cost to you).
Substack Subscriptions
Invest in your personal growth while supporting a passionate writer by upgrading your subscription to one of your favorite publications; the best content is often behind the paywall. Many writers offer discounted yearly subscriptions, which is my preferred way to support. Gifting a subscription is also a 10/10 choice for a friend or loved one. Some of my favorite reads: The Lemon Tree Mindset by
, Make Pure Thy Heart by , The Stanza by , Jenny Sais Quoi by .PS: if you didn’t know, my founding members get a free 45 min style call with me with the upgrade of their subscription.
Nice Girl Deprogramming
Morgan May is a wealth of knowledge. Women’s history, relationships, mythology, plant medicine- all of it comes together in her highly educational containers and 1:1 coaching, designed to elevate your state of being into one that can fully hold your true power. and I mean that!
Color Guru
Virtual color analysis is the perfect solution for those who desire a general idea of their color palette without the commitment of a high ticket formal appointment. I tried out Color Guru’s Essential Package and was pleased with the process and results for the price point. You can use my code: ‘TCTM’ for 10% off any course (I’ll receive a small commission with no additional cost to you).
Books
Put that mind to werk! Knowledge is your best companion. All of my favorites, linked here and here.
Self-Care
Body & Skin









100% Jade Gua Sha | Santa Maria Novella Magnolia Fluid Cream | Soft Services Banana Buffing Bar | Diptyque Rich Body Butter | Chanel Baume Essentiel Glow Stick | Kamenoko Tawashi Body Brush | Biodance Bio Collagen-Real Deep Mask | Peter Thomas Roth Potent-C™ Power Brightening Eye Patches | Flamingo Estate Roma Heirloom Tomato Hand Soap
Internal Health









Schedule 35 Microdosing Chocolate | Moon Juice Sex Dust | Higher Dose Infrared Sauna Blanket | Eidon Ionic Minerals Liquid Silica | Cymbiotika Magnesium L-Threonate | ION* Gut Support | NOY Oral Kit | Athletic Greens | Organic Olivia Probiotic
Rituals









Kousaido Sanshi Suimei Incense | Santa Maria Novella Melograno Bath Salts | Peruvian Brass Bell Chakana | Citrine Crystal Diffuser | Frette Unito Shawl Collar Bathrobe | Palo Santo Sticks From Ecuador | Walden Meditation Cushion and Mat Set | Nepali Carved Buddha Singing Bowl | Lavender Eye Pillow
Enjoy and stay tuned for pt 2, X.
Thanks for mentioning The Stanza 🤍